Wise advice from a dear friend of mine. And, no, it doesn’t mean “try” to fail. It is much simpler and much deeper than that.
Getting good at failing – to me – means accepting that I am human and will make mistakes. If there are consequences, we need to face them bravely and move on.
My definition of mistakes is VERY broad. Any mistakes, people, we all make them. From ignoring the truth of those around you to forgetting to get bread at the store. Anything that “one” deems is a mistake, in their own perception of life, no matter how trivial it might be (as it probably leads to something much deeper).
Mistakes are an opportunity to see how things could have been done differently. It is a chance to begin again. How I deal with my own failures, no matter how big or small, must ultimately be acknowledged, accepted and left behind. I guess in a poetic way, it would be fighting and defending for my own future.
If I just pick my head up and move on, without getting caught up emotionally in the concept of failure..just get up and try again. Deep inside, I know I am not built of failure or I would not be where I am. I have survived and will continue to do so.
So, why not just get up and try again when I fall on my butt. Which reminds me of my sweet baby nephew. He is such a beautiful boy. He is now running, but he went through a trial of falling and getting back up. He did not allow the pure awesomeness of opportunites that walking would lead to. He just knew he didn’t want to keep crawling for the rest of his life. It is an innate part of us as humans.
Sometimes it can be that simple.
The outcomes in my life are bound to my much different then they have been. What do you think?